I had an interesting moment the other day, interesting and somewhat unsettling. I realised that the way I was being seen by someone wasn’t the way I’d thought. This lead me to a train of thought.
We all put a lot of effort into how we come across, we care how we’re seen by others. This goes to various degrees, depending on the situation and the individual. But at what point does this behaviour become unethical? Is it, in spite of our best efforts, ultimately futile?
No matter how carefully we craft our public faces, how carefully we choose our words, they will be seen through someone else’s lens. The persons you and I are, are the result of our lifelong Karma; choice after choice, event after event. This is as true of the person you project to the world as it is of the person I am, as I watch your actions and hear your words. We see each other through the lenses of our Karma.
Ultimately I cannot control how you see me, too much depends on the lens through which you view me. For me to try and try, ultimately results in me taking (or trying to take) too much control over your perceptions. Thus taking what is not freely given and violating a precept.
For example, I support and have written Free Software. I do this because I wish have more control of the software that runs my computer; I wrote SitQuietly for the Linux platform because I wanted to give something back to the community, however small, for all the good their software had done me.
But, through someone else’s eyes, am I the enemy? No matter how compassionate my motives and aims? Think not? Look again….
When using open source makes you an enemy of the state.
Should Open Source Be An Enemy Of The State?
My entire Karma led me to this point, if you are an intellectual property lobbyist or an advocate of certain proprietary software companies then you will quite possibly see me as the enemy. Whether I want you to or not. But drawing on my point above, for me to go too far in trying to change your mind isn’t just unethical, it’s unskilful. At what point does it cause suffering for us both? I’ll also wager the attempt will fail. So it would seem easier for me to present myself as you find me, and simply allow you the room to make your mind up then live and let live. No, not just better, more ethical, more skilful.
Interesting train of thought, isn’t it?

